— Bob-a-job-alog-a-roonie

Certainly not. There are things in life we choose to spend on, and things we have to have. And in everything there are options and price points. I may not be typical in nature, but I am on a salary that is normal for someone of my age. Here’s what I do spend, and mostly I couldn’t spend much less.

  • Food – $70/day week, if I take my own lunch to work and cook my own meals. I might eat out if I wasn’t single
  • Water – free, comes from a tap
  • Alcohol – $20/week to get drunk as a skunk 4 times a week, if I chose to (cask wine). In reality I also go to the pub but don’t need to
  • Transport – $40/week, tram to the city. This is normal for most of Melbourne if they choose public transport
  • Shoes and Clothes – I’m not into fashion, so $10/week would be plenty
  • Utilities  and insurance – $40/week and I don’t have health insurance
  • Entertainment – $90/week for books, pay TV, internet, Spotify, going out. Otherwise I’d go mad…
  • Child support – which I would pay even if I didn’t have to, $175/week
  • Saving – for holidays (paying off credit card from holidays is more likely), is $100/week

I think you get the idea – I live quite economically, and it doesn’t bother me at all. Material possessions and preciousness are not me. But if they were, my expenses would be way higher.

  • Housing – $430/week. I live in the inner suburbs, because I need to to stay sane. I could live in a very shitty alternative to my 1-bed apartment and pay $350/week. The most despicable of private accommodation in the outer suburbs is $250+/week and I’d literally rather live in a tent.

So, roughly speaking, I spend $1,000/week, and 43% of that is on rent*. If I chose a less nice apartment it would be 35%. And that is as someone who is frugal. If I spent what most people spent on non-essentials, I’d be broke. Or have no life whatsoever.

The perceived wisdom in developed countries is 30% of income should be the maximum you spend on rent, and in Australia the average in capital cities is 40%. Couples have it much easier, obviously. As a single person, being in a relationship could be seen as a massive economic advantage, and while that couldn’t be a motivation for me, it is food for thought.

 

 

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Randomly decided, each year, by whichever social media service or church or whatever you belong to.

You get told the day before – tomorrow is the day you celebrate being alive.

Use it how ever you want. Unlike all the other “days”, you don’t have people singing Happy Birthday, don’t have kids giving you breakfast in bed, don’t have husbands buying you flowers.

Free form, whatever you want, appreciation of being alive. An excuse to live that little bit more than usual. Tell others or just do your own private thing.

But know that the Universe created you, and you deserve to appreciate it anyway you choose.

 

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  1. Find a suitable Beyonce song
  2. Change the music a bit
  3. Make the chorus “You’re Straight Enough to Make Me Gay”

Yep, it doesn’t make sense. Which is why it works 🙂

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I can’t believe that this study didn’t make the headlines around the world.

You probably know that the world you sense is not the full picture – there are depths of coloration most of us don’t see, sounds too high or low to hear, radio signals we don’t sense and so on. They are due to a lack of senses to detect them.

However, we also have filters in our brains that stop us noticing certain things that we can sense – to stop overload.

And a study has shown that LSD stops some of those filters from working.

“Brain scans of individuals high on the drug revealed that the chemical allows parts of the cortex to become flooded with signals that are normally filtered out to prevent information overload.”

How magical is that – take a dose and see a more real version of the world around us. Those Beatles were onto something!

“The world around us is not the world we perceive because the thalamus filters out what it considers to be irrelevant information,” said Katrin Preller, a researcher on the project at the University Hospital for Psychiatry in Zurich. “We don’t necessarily perceive all there is because that would be an overload of information.”

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2019/jan/28/study-shows-how-lsd-messes-with-brains-signalling

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In an ideal world, two people believe that each is the one for them, out of 8 billion people. That some sacred force brings them together, and by chance they lived in the same suburb or knew people in common.

In reality one is probably thinking that way, and the other is thinking, OK, they’ll do.

With my autism, I feel more, and I over think. This has meant obsessive love – not stalker level, but definitely write-a-song-or-poem-about level.

Romantic love is one of 7 types of love traditionally. But I figure there is another: romantic benevolent love.

The common factor in all of my employment is that I just want to help. It seems to be my catch cry. And yet in romance I only aspire to what I can achieve for myself. Now that I accept that at the very best only half of all people can achieve that, and mostly it could be a fallacy, perhaps romantic love can come from providing rather than receiving.

Via providing, other types of love can emerge?

Problem: aspiring towards your one true love has a singular goal. Aspiring to help and provide love for others, there are many goals, perhaps 8 billion goals. So how would you know if you are achieving the best you can? And is it too easy? And does it ultimately fill the soul with love each day?

 

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Halfway through my second Palahniuk novel to read, and I get him as an author:

  • Repetition
  • Socialist Ideas
  • Disgust with consumerism & modern society
  • Sex
  • Being very clever
  • Awesome plots

Chuck describes the internal thoughts, and thoughts on the surroundings, rather than the surroundings themselves. So, the trees looked green to him, rather than the trees are green.

This book involves a sleeper agent child in the USA, and is presented as dispatches regarding his achievements. They are written in a unique style – English, technical, obsessive. And obviously not real – real would be in Pygmy’s native language, especially the flashbacks to his younger years. So from early on you realise this is all just fun. The style is hard at first, but you do get used to it, and it is not as difficult a read as it may seem. For me anyway, maybe others would give up, although I usually can’t handle difficult reads with challenging language.

This is my favourite paragraph, where this North Korean / Chinese / Russian et al kid spy describes a high school dance – his mission seems to be to either impregnate or kill everyone…

Occasional male student approach female, request mutual gyrate to demonstrate adequate reproductive partner, fast gyrate to display no cripple. No genetic defect to bequeath offspring. Demonstrate coordinated, plenty vital to provision impregnated female throughout gestation period. Provision subsequent offspring until matured. Females flaunt dermis and hair to depict viable vessel for impregnate, paint face so appear most symmetrical. Best likely produce frequent alive births.

So far there have been infiltrations, numerous teen pregnancies, Rohypnol, mass shootings, martial arts and sodomy. This is confronting stuff.

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I’d livestream this but too drunk…

(note to self, make a website / directory of Diceman-related stuff…)

Visit Amazon, choose 6 different book genres with the dice, then 6 different sub-genres, then the top 6 ranked results, then buy. 100% dice driven 🙂

(by forcing you to come up with categories, the winning is already happening)

  1. Business
  2. Computers
  3. History
  4. Literature
  5. Science
  6. Science Fiction

And the dice says… 2

Shit…

  1. Business Technology
  2. Computer Science
  3. Internet & Social Media
  4. Security and Encryption
  5. Software
  6. Web Development and Design

And the dice says (yep I know one is called a die)… 6

Best Sellers are:

  1. Crushing It!: How Great Entrepreneurs Build Their Business and Influence-and How You Can, Too
  2. Building a StoryBrand: Clarify Your Message So Customers Will Listen
  3. Python Crash Course: A Hands-On, Project-Based Introduction to Programming
  4. The Everything Store: Jeff Bezos and the Age of Amazon
  5. The Design of Everyday Things: Revised and Expanded Edition
  6. Password book: A Premium Journal And Logbook To Protect Usernames and Passwords: Modern Password Keeper, Vault, Notebook and Online Organizer with … Calligraphy and Hand Lettering Design)

And the winner is… 5

I never would have picked this book off the shelf. Never. But it might make sense, deep diving into why we choose what we do. Ordered!

($13.75 USD, up to a month for delivery, all good)

Ppl can livestream this, including the purchase, and then report back later.

One week later – I feel this is good for a once, but not terribly repeatable…

 

 

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The idea is that a business will take a full fee from you, and when you decide to push the button and exit your current reality…

  • Fake passport delivered
  • Next flight to your safe place is booked
  • Cash waiting for you there
  • Existing commitments (like rent, credit card) sorted and explained
  • Friends and family informed of your year-long Antarctica trek

All you need do is push that button on your smartphone Escape Hatch app…

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Keep in mind that if Facebook restricts live-streaming in any way:

  • They will lose a lot of business
  • People will use other platforms that are less restrictive

Options Facebook have are:

  • Delay live-streaming with enough buffer to check it is acceptable
  • Ban all live-streaming
  • Extra scrutiny on any video seeing a lot of activity
  • AI to spot the types of video that should be banned

Basically Facebook cannot afford to pay people to check every single video, and even if they could, they couldn’t check every part of every video. And AI will struggle to tell the difference between schoolyard bullying and a boxing match, between a massacre and Fortnite.

Not every shocking live stream will generate enough of a viewer spike to warrant attention.

Meanwhile, the bad live-streamers can:

  • Start the video with something innocuous and switch to the nasty mid-way
  • Post is as a regular video
  • Stream it across multiple accounts, using filters to make each video seem unique
  • Use a different platform and link to it

To me the future is obvious. One that is regulated (identified people only, nothing anonymous), alongside a wild west that cannot be stopped.

 

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But how could that be? They show me the cheapest prices!

They also charge up to 15-30% commission to the hotels. And they account for half of online bookings. Which means roughly 10% of hotel costs are to pay Wotif, Trivago, Hotels Combined, Expedia and others.

Meanwhile, if you book directly, the hotels get more money, and can therefore lower their rates.

The solution:

  1. Use your favourite booking site
  2. Get to it from their organic search listings. Every time you click on ad, money leaves Australia and goes into Google’s bank account
  3. Find the hotel you want to book with
  4. Search for the hotel on Google. Again, don’t click on ads.
  5. Make sure their price is the cheapest or near enough.
  6. Book 🙂

 

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